For the first time in my life, I spent the night at sea!
The cheapest way to get from Helsinki to Stockholm ended up being an overnight ferry. I had mixed feelings going into it about being crammed into a tiny cabin with the rest of my family, but ended up having the most restful night’s sleep on our trip so far. It must have been the subtle rocking motion of the water?
I’m getting ahead of myself; let’s rewind a bit.
I know I said I was done mentioning anything about Helsinki, but then I remembered I took a few pictures after we had packed up and were ready to leave our apartment.
It was a great little spot. And, like Vienna, I felt a bit sad closing the door for the last time.
Once again, this is what we had to take with us: four small wheeled suitcases, four backpacks, and a cotton tote with some snacks.

Poor Indy drew the short straw again—metaphorically speaking, no straws were actually drawn!—and slept on the couch for the duration of our trip. I thought it was important Belle had her own space whenever we had that option. The privacy needs of a 15-year-old girl wildly outpace those of a tween boy.

I loved this kitchen!

The glassed-in balcony was wonderful, but it wasn’t heated or insulated so we basically never used it because it was SO cold.

A picture on our final walk to the public transit stop closest to our apartment.

We took a tram to the ferry terminal.

And then we boarded the Silja Symphony boat from the Tallink Silja Line ferry company.

It was my first time on a ship this big, and my first time spending a night at sea.

We’re not really shoppers, so this indoor mall space was lost on us, but it was a busy spot by the early evening.


After dropping off the bags in our cabin, John and I went to the top deck to watch the ship pull out of the harbour. (The kids wanted to stay below and watch a movie. Sigh.)

This provides a great perspective on just how prominent the Helsinki Cathedral is on the city skyline.

This Viking Line ship traveled close behind us on the same route to Stockholm. It’s a very popular ferry crossing.

The sun even came out as we made our way across the Baltic Sea.


I wasn’t very hungry, so John took the kids to get some food while I read a book in our cabin. Later in the evening, after we had watched a movie (Project Hail Mary, it was good!), Indy wanted to FaceTime his best friend back in Nova Scotia.
We took the call up on the top deck at 10:45 pm. And it was still so bright I could have read a book. Wild!

It’s bedtime and still very bright outside.

Those little white specks off in the distance are other ships!

Here’s a little peek at our cabin. It was tiny, but efficiently arranged. The beds all fold down from the wall, there’s plenty of space to store luggage under the bottom bunks, and everyone that took a shower raved about the water pressure.
And, best of all, I slept so well!

In fact, I slept so soundly, I missed most of the navigation through the many inlets and channels leading into Stockholm.


After docking, we took a train to our hotel which, despite being outside the heart of Stockholm, ended up being incredibly conveniently located. It was on a main transit line, so we were able to quickly drop off our bags and get back into the central core of the city.
Our first stop was the former site of the Kreditbanken in Norrmalmstorg Square. In 1973 there was a hostage situation/attempted bank robbery where, in the end, the captives sided with their captors. This phenomenon was originally referred to as Norrmalmstorg Syndrome before becoming… Stockholm Syndrome.
Yes. This is THE site of the root of Stockholm Syndrome which is now broadly considered to be: the response of a captive or victim where they develop an emotional attachment, empathy, or loyalty toward their abuser.


Next we walked by the Royal Palace.

And then Storkyrkan—the oldest church in Stockholm, dating back to 1279. The peachy-pink exterior is very striking! This is the site of Swedish royal weddings and coronations. Very conveniently located so near to the palace!


We admittedly didn’t pursue Nobel Prize-related attractions (Alfred Nobel was born in Stockholm, and all the Nobel Prizes—except the Nobel Peace Prize, that gets handed out in Oslo, Norway—are awarded in the city.)
Anyhoo, there is a Nobel Prize Museum in Stockholm! We took a picture and then I wrote a few sentences about it.

It’s located in Stortorget, the oldest and most picturesque square in the Old Town of Stockholm (Gamla Stan). This area is considered to be one of the best-preserved medieval city centers in all of Europe.

We were getting hungry so we stopped at a restaurant in the square claiming to have the best Swedish meatballs in the city. A bold claim, and one I can’t definitively corroborate, but they were delicious served alongside creamy mashed potatoes, simple pickled cucumbers, and lingonberries! I mean, I HAD to have Swedish meatballs in Sweden, right?

After we had enjoyed a leisurely lunch (I was the only person to get meatballs; the boys both got toast skagen—a very traditional dish of toast topped with a shrimp/prawn salad, and Belle got a cheesy garlic loaf), we headed off to see Iron Boy (or, The Boy Who Looks at the Moon or, in Swedish, Järnpojke). Whatever you want to call him, he’s the smallest sculpture in Stockholm.
At less than 6 inches tall, he’s tiny. But people come to see the statue and then leave coins and other little trinkets/tokens beside him for good luck.


The sculpture is tucked away in this cute little courtyard.


We popped into a few souvenir shops looking for the requisite keychains. There were lots of Pippi Longstocking dolls. She’s a beloved national character, created by the Swedish author Astrid Lindgren.

Next up was Mårten Trotzigs Gränd: the narrowest alley in Stockholm. At its smallest point, it gets down to a width of 36 inches/90 centimeters. We love this sort of quirky adventuring. You could say it was right up our alley. PUN INTENDED.


You had to know this meant some climbing!!


There are so many quaint cobblestone streets.

We got this great aerial view of the city from the free viewing platform Katarinahissen (The Katarina Elevator). You go up the elevator 40 m (it was nice not to be taking stairs for the view after climbing so many towers on this trip). Plus, the price is right 🙂


I loved how the waterfront and buildings were all reflected in the glass windows of this building.

We navigated to the Monteliusvägen viewpoint. It is lovely, especially with lilacs in bloom.





We could spot the iconic Stockholm City Hall across the water. This is where the Nobel Prize banquet is held every year after the awards ceremony. We didn’t have time to visit, but from the pictures I saw online, the interior looks spectacular.

Here’s Indy posing with a statue of famous Swedish musician and author Evert Taube. The matching sunglasses are a nice touch.

In Sweden, in its simplest form, fika means a coffee and cake break. But it’s basically a state of mind in their culture. People stop and slow down and enjoy life (and treats) in the middle of every day. Most workplaces in Sweden build fika into their workday. And nothing is more iconic than indulging in a cinnamon or cardamom bun.
I opted for cardamom (though I likely would have preferred cinnamon, cardamom just isn’t something that’s used much in Canada, so it felt more authentic).
Delicious!

We stopped by the famous St. George & The Dragon Statue.

I paused to admire all the picture-perfect cafes and shops. So cute!

About this point in the day, we wandered by a poster for a Haunted Ghost Walk through Gamla Stan and we spontaneously signed up for an evening tour.
Since we now had an evening anchor activity, we set about filling the rest of the afternoon.
I also LOVED all the giant planters that seemed to be absolutely everywhere around the city and filled with flowers.

Clearly, it had been too long since his last tree pose.

Back to perhaps the most iconic building on Gamla Stan: Ribbinska Huset. Legend has it that each of the white stones in this building represent the murder of a Swedish noble.




At one point we wandered by another portion of the Royal Palace and got to watch the changing of the guard.



And then it was time for the Ghost Walk.
Our tour guide had a thick Scottish accent (and was admittedly a bit tricky to understand sometimes), but he was engaging and fun.

There was one other family with kids slightly younger than ours. The boy in the family was… a handful but in a devious, naughty way which his parents seemed to think was funny. They never did anything to try to corral him. You could tell that the tour guide was getting more and more irritated, but he handled it well.
The happy side effect for our kids was they got asked to do all the interactive bits because the tour guide didn’t feel like he could trust the other boy to follow the rules.

The English term blood-bath stems from this very square during the Stockholm Massacre in 1520. There were so many executions over three days (about 100) that the streets ran red and it was said you could bathe in all the blood. Horrific and… now you know the root of the saying.

Indy on the chopping block for dramatic effect.

At one point in the tour, our guide was talking about all the victims of various plagues and pandemics. For the previous few minutes he’d been coughing periodically but in a VERY realistic way. Earlier in the day, we’d seen another group running through this exact part of the tour so we knew what was going to happen but the other people on our tour were completely unaware.
All of a sudden, he had a giant cough into his white handkerchief and it filled with “blood.” I can’t decide if it was more dramatic knowing it was coming or not.
The kids loved this part.

Here he’s having Belle eat a piece of “dried rat”—I can’t remember why, but it had a purpose in one of the stories. Obviously it wasn’t dried rat but, again, a fun touch.


It was a fun way to explore the city and it was especially interactive for the kids.
After the tour wrapped up, we grabbed some salad kits and sandwiches from a grocery store and took the train back to our hotel. I never did manage to take a picture, but I think this was my favourite hotel ever with kids. They had bunk beds, hardwood floors, and the BEST breakfast buffet.
And that’s a wrap on our first day in Stockholm.
Your turn.
- Ghost tours—yes or no?
- Did you know the origin story behind Stockholm Syndrome?
- Cinnamon or cardamom?
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The overnight ferry sounds like such a fun experience! And the best sleep in a tiny cabin with the whole family. Who would have guessed?
Yes, I remember reading about the origins of the Stockholm syndrome. There’s a good film on it too, called “Stockholm”. Much of the exterior shots were obviously made in Stockholm, but ironically, all the indoor filming was made in Canada!
The ghost tour sounds like the perfect way to end the day too. The tour guide coughing up “blood” is genius!
I thought I’d have a horrible night of sleep. Colour me pleasantly surprised.
Ohhh. I should watch that movie! It sounds fascinating.
All the little things (like the blood) really added to the experience on the ghost tour.
I’m adding “spend the night at sea” to my bucket list! I’ve never done a ghost tour, but I don’t rule it out. It just needs to come along at the right time and place.
I agree with your decision to have Swedish meatballs in Sweden, but the toast skagen sounds right up my alley. Note to self that I will just need to make sure that I have time for two meals in Sweden so that I don’t have to chose.
It’s been so long since I’ve had cardamon that I don’t exactly remember it but I know it’s the kind fo taste that I would know if I had it. If I had a choice of course I would go for cinnamon.
I think the only logical next step after sleeping on a train is to sleep on a boat, Birchie!!!
I think you’d love a ghost tour.
Cardamon is fine; I don’t love it, but when it Sweden…
I did know the origin of Stockholm Syndrome since I listened to a podcast about it in the pandemic (I listened to a lot of wild things at that time).
I have spent a few nights at sea! Some of them much less glamourous than yours – when I was in Grade Nine I did a West Coast sailing trip, and I was on a small river cruise down the Nile back in 2001.
I love both cardamon and cinnamon, but if I had the choice I would go cardamon since I don’t have it regularly.
I literally thought to myself when I wrote that sentence: I bet Nicole will know this from a podcast, hahaha.
I had no idea you’ve been on the Nile. How cool!!
Wow, Stockholm looks beautiful! I had heard about the origin of the term Stockholm Syndrome, but not bloodbath. Even though I know a cardamom bun might have been more ‘authentic’ I’d still probably go for a cinnamon bun, they are my favourite!
I think I would have liked the cinnamon bun more; cardamon is fine, but not my fav. Then again, I’m SUCH a creature of habit, so forced myself to go out of my comfort zone 🙂
Yes, to ghost tours. I went to one in my own city that included actors from the high school reenacting parts of the stories shared by the guide. Very well done! My nephew was an “extra”(small background part) in the 2018 movie Stockholm, starring Ethan Hawke and Noomi Rapace about the hostage taking in the bank, so I was familiar with the term. I love cinnamon and enjoy cardamom occasionally and would have chosen the cardamon for authenticity.
We have a haunted grave walk in the town where I live and I’ve never done it and NEED to change that. Maybe this summer??
What a cool fact to know about your nephew. I hadn’t heard of this movie and now I’m very curious.
Stockholm!!! In my opinion, one of the most beautiful cities in the world. (Although I haven’t really seen enough cities to judge.) I would love to go back — it’s been twenty years, so I think I’m due for another visit.
Your boat trip sounds lovely (especially the deep sleep) and your cabin is super cool. I am also fascinated that your hotel had bunk beds! What a fun feature.
Yes, I would 100% go on a ghost tour. I’m glad it was fun and that your kids got to participate.
It really is SO beautiful and I definitely did not get to see enough of it.
The bunk beds in the hotel were such an efficient use of space and wonderful since it meant the kids could have their own personal space. 10/10 recommend!
Here’s a weird thing… I don’t think I’ve ever thought about Stockholm before. I mean I obviously know it exists, but I guess this is the first time I’ve known someone who went there. So it was fun to see that it’s a really cool city. Interesting to learn the origin of “Stockholm syndrome.”
The ghost tour sounds fun! And, I can completely imagine you sleeping really well on the ferry. Now I kind of want my bed to rock back and forth- it would be soothing!
I’ve seen it highlighted in a few travel magazines before and it always looked lovely and John has been a few times so I really wanted to visit. 1.5 days was NOT enough time. I think 3-4 would have been perfect?
I mean there has to be something so fundamental about the rocking motion putting us to sleep since it’s such a go-to strategy when we’re babies.
We used to take the overnight ferry from Hull to Rotterdam or Zeebrugge when we lived in Liverpool. I love sleeping on the sea, a longer cruise is definitely still on my bucket list.
Stockholm looks great! I did know where the term comes from, it’s a standard bit in every psychology textbook. But fascinating to see your pictures of the building. Also, you have to let us know how they compare to ikea meatballs!
Funnily enough, I did a ghost tour once, in Canada! I was there for a wedding and visited a friend I knew from livejournal. Said friend did period ghost tours so we joined one that was given by a colleague. I think this was in Kingston?
Hmm. I think IKEA meatballs were just as good, but the ambience was a notch above the IKEA cafeteria-haha.
I’ve done a ghost tour in Kingston (Ontario)! I still have a flashlight from that event.
Ooh today I learned that the Helsinki to Stockholm is an overnight ferry! I always thought it was a few hours. When I lived in Sweden sometimes Swedes would take that ferry to buy cheaper alcohol (at sea? or finland?) but I never took it myself.
I prefer cinnamon for sure. But Cardamon feels so… scandanavian
I have done ghost tours and I’m a bit meh on them, but I do love a history tour! So maybe I’m the boring one haha. The Jack the Ripper tours in London are a nice combo
I think it’s 17ish hours total! Definitely longer than a flight, but it was inexpensive (cheaper than a hotel room!) and a neat experience. Plus, I got to sleep!
Finns DEFINITELY go to Estonia to get cheap alcohol. We saw people loaded up with carts full of it on the way back from Tallin. And yes, there is a lot of alcohol for sale on board the ship.
We debated trying to fit in a Jack the Ripper tour when we were in London. We didn’t have the time, but it’s on my list for next time.
How fun that you were able to go on a little “cruise” from Helsinki to Stockholm. The ferry trip sounds like a fun little adventure. And the pictures from Stockholm are stunning. I knew what Stockholm Syndrome is but not where it got its name. Such an interesting background fact that there actually is a square that is named for the hostage situation.
I can totally get on board with fika by the way and the cardamon buns look delicious!
I had no idea there was a specific location tied to the phenomenon and I think I had always imagined it to be a kidnapping case (one person being held hostage), so it was interesting to get a history lesson.
Fika is AMAZING and I love that it’s such a part of their culture, even in the workplace.
It looks to me that you got the most out of your Stockholm visit with a few things I had no clue about, like that iron boy and the ghost museum! So cool! Gamla stan and its surroundings are so pretty and I’ve always loved walking around there. Regarding the Stockholm syndrome there’s an excellent documentary on YouTube and I think it’s in English too.
Ohhh. I love documentaries like that; I’m going to look it up!