I sat down with my husband, John, and asked for his input on gift ideas for men and… he had plenty of suggestions!
Today’s “guide” is the result.

All of these items are things we own and use regularly. Some were Christmas or birthday presents I’ve purchased for him over the years, others are things he’s researched and purchased himself (sometimes the path of least resistance as an adult), and a few are similar to products we own that are no longer available.
There are practical gifts, travel accessories, a few splurges, and some fun options. And all of them are items we use and genuinely recommend.
While I’m calling this a gift guide for men, plenty of these would make great gifts for other people (teens! women!) on your gift list.
A quick note for my fellow devoted thrifters: some of the items on this list are things we’ve purchased secondhand (including ALL of our Google Nest Mini speakers and both of our 3-in-1 charging stations!). Feel free to use this guide as an ideas list and keep your eyes peeled for secondhand options. Buying used is good for the environment AND your wallet. Win-win!
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*All prices are in USD and reflect pricing as of publication in October 2026.

1. Battery Storage Case + Tester | $17
This exact battery storage case was one of John’s favourite Christmas gifts last year. It keeps all our different sized batteries organized, and having a built-in tester (I cannot tell you how often I’ve wondered if a random battery I found on the counter was “dead” or had just been set down by someone and forgotten) is incredibly handy.
You can wall-mount this case, but we just store ours inside a cupboard. It’s one of those practical gifts that isn’t especially exciting to unwrap but makes everyday life easier.
2. Darn Tough Socks | $25
These are John’s favourite socks. Full stop.
In addition to being comfortable and breathable, Darn Tough socks come with an incredible lifetime warranty. John is VERY hard on socks, and we’ve returned a number of pairs over the years that have worn out. They’ve always replaced them, no questions asked.
Every single Christmas, I buy him another pair.
These are not cheap socks, but they are top quality. (One thing we do to help extend their longevity is hang them to dry.)
They come in a variety of shapes (ankle socks! ski socks!) and thicknesses (John prefers the thin crew, but I own a cushioned pair) and so many fun colours and patterns (though there are plenty of “serious” socks, too).
We’ve tried Smartwool and Icebreaker socks over the years, but we’ve stopped bothering with any other brand at this point because Darn Tough is our favourite.
Note: if you’re buying for someone with smaller feet, a Women’s Medium is equivalent to the relatively hard-to-find Men’s Small.
3. Oura Ring | $300-$500
John wears his Oura Ring 3 (currently $299) every day and finds it a very helpful way to keep track of his activity, sleep, and overall health trends. (When he goes to upgrade he will get the Oura Ring 5.)
It’s especially useful when he’s travelling for work. He often gets notifications about having an elevated temperature (jet lag is HARD on the body) or experiencing high stress levels, which reminds him to pay attention to how he’s feeling.
He really appreciates having all these health metrics available in one place. I’ve taken a break from using my Oura Ring, but when I had one (I inherited John’s old version and the battery life, after years of use, wasn’t great) the #1 thing I loved was menstrual cycle tracking. It was incredibly adept at alerting me to my cycle; not relevant for the men in your life, but this makes a great gift for women, too.
4. Travel Steamer | $30
John doesn’t actually travel with a steamer in tow (remember, we’re a carry-on only family!), but he suggested this deserved a place in a gift roundup.
He regularly steams his suit jacket before heading off on work trips. It’s a quick way to remove wrinkles and freshen things up without pulling out the iron (I hate ironing with the heat of a thousand suns).
I’ve also used the steamer to get wrinkles and folds out of curtains and decorative pillowcases and it works like a charm.
Note: Our exact steamer is no longer available, so I’ve linked to a comparable product.

5. Anker 3-in-1 Charging Station | $70
John and I both use 3-in-1 charging stations for our Apple products: phone, watch, and earbuds.
Having one central hub for everything is incredibly convenient, especially on a bedside table where cords can quickly get out of control. (Just me?)
We found ours secondhand at thrift stores, so I can’t link to the exact models we own but this Anker charging station is a similar option from a well-known brand.
6. Apple AirTags | $90 (4-pack)
Speaking of Apple products, we own two sets of Apple AirTags, and we use them all the time.
We each have an AirTag attached to our car keys (using a holder like this), John has an AirTag-compatible wallet (similar to this), and we’ve put them in our vehicles.
We also have friends who use AirTags with wristbands (like these) for their young children to wear if they’re in large crowds.
Note: If you don’t use Apple products, Tile is another option worth investigating.
7. Milwaukee Screwdriver Set | $70
After years of using subpar screwdrivers (they broke one after another), last Christmas I invested in a quality Milwaukee set for John.
You can really tell the difference.
These feel substantial and they are made to last. The tips are magnetized to help hold screws in place, and the handles have markings to identify the screwdriver head (if only I could remember which one is Phillips and which one is Robertson!!!).
A good screwdriver set is a practical gift that’s useful for years.
8. Trtl Travel Pillow | $60
John has travelled hundreds of thousands of kilometres by airplane, and he considers the Trtl Travel Pillow to be the best travel pillow he’s ever used.
It’s quite different from a traditional U-shaped neck pillow, but he finds it provides MUCH better neck support.
If you know someone who spends a lot of time on airplanes, this could be a great gift. It also packs down, so it doesn’t become another bulky item to squeeze inside luggage.
Note: Amazon reviews on this product are mixed, but John stands by his recommendation and Trtl regularly shows up on Wirecutter’s Best Neck Pillow list.

9. Wireless Earbuds
John has a thing for headphones and has owned and tested a LOT of different pairs over the years. (While I’ve had great luck with my AirPods, he’s gone through two defective sets and just generally is not a fan.)
The Sony WF-1000XM4 wireless earbuds are his absolute favourite. (Not linking because it’s hard to find them new, and I don’t want to link to the refurbished ones since the battery life often isn’t great; but John would say it’s worth the hunt if you can find a new set!)
- He wants me to be very clear: it MUST be the XM4 model, not the XM5.
- He says the noise cancellation of the XM4s is better than what he’s gotten with his fancy noise-cancelling Bose headphones.
- He does say it’s critical to switch out the ear tips. (In his words, these are “the best headphones, but the worst ear tips”; he just uses generic universal ear tips.)
- Unfortunately, since this is an older model, finding them new can be very tricky. eBay sometimes sells them new, but more and more it’s refurbished sets as the main option which isn’t always ideal because battery life can be compromised.
He also recommends Soundcore by Anker Liberty 4 NC Wireless Earbuds ($80) or the Soundcore Liberty 5s ($83). He said both have “decent” noise cancellation.
In terms of battery longevity (up to 12 hours on a single charge; 56 hours when you factor in the case charge—in John’s world, this means he can keep them in for an entire long-haul flight!), he said Soundcore Anker P41i can’t be beat (and they’re only $60).
10. Reflective Roadside Warning Triangles | $28
Chalk this up under responsible adult gifts that everyone (with a vehicle) should probably own but hopefully will never need to use.
I did a lot of research before buying these for John. Most roadside triangles are notoriously flimsy, but these stood out because they’re weighted with sand, making them much more stable. (They’re heavy!)
Our reflective triangles live in our vehicle trunks, and it gives me peace of mind knowing they’re there.
Not the most glamorous Christmas gift… but a very practical one!
11. Crokinole Board | $90
Okay, this was MY addition to the list.
I grew up playing crokinole, and it’s a lot of fun.
If you’re not familiar, it’s a tabletop game where players flick little wooden discs toward the centre of a board, trying to score points and knock their opponents’ pieces out of the way. (Kind of like curling.)
It’s simple to learn but surprisingly competitive (my brother and grandmother used to have crokinole tournaments that lasted the entire weekend).
I think a crokinole board makes a great gift for someone who enjoys games, especially if they’re looking for something a bit different from the usual board games. Also, the playing surface is double-sided, so you can flip it over to play checkers!
Note: The board we own was a gift many years ago from my parents, but I’ve linked to a comparable version.
12. Ergodriven Topo Standing Desk Mat | $110
John has a standing desk in our office and spends a lot of the workday on his feet.
A few years ago, I bought him an Ergodriven “topographic” standing mat.
This is not an ordinary anti-fatigue mat. It has raised areas and different contours that make it easy to shift positions while standing.
One Amazon reviewer described it as an “ergonomic playground for your feet,” which pretty much sums it up!
The ErgoDriven Topo mat is incredibly high quality, and John has gotten a lot of use out of his. (There’s also a smaller, less expensive—$80—version that’s good for small spaces or people that are… a bit on the short side… called the Topo Mini!)

13. Water Purifying Bottle | $99
John bought a self-sanitizing water bottle (it uses UV rays) before heading to Rwanda, and now he uses it as his everyday water bottle.
His has a built-in UV sanitizing feature, which is a neat concept (and very useful for travelling!), but it also keeps water nice and cold all day.
I’ve linked to a similar UV water bottle, though it isn’t the exact one John uses.
14. Click Torque Wrench | $37
This has turned out to be a surprisingly useful tool.
We used to have to go back to the mechanic shop after our seasonal tire changes to have the lug nuts re-torqued.
Now we—read: John—can do that at home with our very own torque wrench.
If you’re buying for someone who enjoys working on vehicles or has to do regular home maintenance (he used this to disassemble a basketball hoop), a quality torque wrench is a very practical gift.
15. Reaction Tackle Braided Fishing Line | $35
This is hyper-specific, but John swears by this Reaction Tackle braided fishing line.
It’s great quality and can be used for both freshwater and saltwater fishing.
This isn’t a relevant gift for everyone, but if you’re shopping for a man (or woman!) who loves to fish, it might be just the thing.
16. LEGO Vincent van Gogh’s Starry Night | $170
Not all adults love LEGO, but plenty do.
John has an extensive collection of Star Wars LEGO. Some favourites include the Millennium Falcon, Imperial Shuttle, Star Destroyer, Kylo Ren’s ship, Yoda’s hut, Yavin 4 Rebel Base, and the Death Star Trash compactor diorama.
But there are also some very cool LEGO sets based on famous works of art.
John owns and loves the Vincent van Gogh Starry Night LEGO set. It was fun to assemble and looks great on display.
Note: While we don’t own the next sets, there’s also Sunflowers if you prefer that van Gogh aesthetic, The Great Wave (Hokusai), or Bridge Over a Pond of Water Lilies (Monet).

17. Veepeak OBD-II Car Code Scanner | $32
This is a gadget John suggested for this guide that goes completely and utterly over my head.
It’s a little device that connects to your vehicle’s diagnostic port (his words, not mine; do not ask me what this means) and works with compatible apps to read error codes and access vehicle information.
John uses his in both our vehicles to check codes and adjust certain settings (again, do not ask me what settings; this is his domain, not mine).
He assures me it’s a very handy thing to have. (Also, it’s frugal. It can cost a small fortune every time you take in a vehicle to get a code checked/cleared.)
If you’ve got a car enthusiast or someone who likes tinkering with vehicles on your shopping list, this OBD-II scanner might be a winner?
18. Google Nest Mini | $120
We have a series of Google Nest Minis scattered throughout the house. Ours are an older model (all of which we bought second hand), but they still get plenty of use. We also have a central Google Home device.
We primarily use our Google speakers to play music through Spotify and control our smart plugs.
(Stay tuned, because I’ll have more to say about smart plugs in my men’s stocking stuffer gift guide.)
Note: Here is the newer model package (3-pack)—which we haven’t felt any need to upgrade to—but is likely the best place to start if you’re interested in having a Google speaker setup in your home.
Also note: You can turn off the microphone function on your speakers so that it is literally just a speaker, and there are no back-and-forth interaction capabilities.
19. Portable Second Monitor | $40
This is another product John SWEARS by when travelling.
He has a triple-monitor setup in our home office, so it’s quite an adjustment when he heads off on a work trip and suddenly has to do everything on one small laptop screen.
This portable monitor has been a game-changer.
It’s lightweight enough to take on every work trip and gives him extra screen space wherever he’s working.
He owns this exact model and highly recommends it.
20. LEVEL8 Wide-Handle Carry-On Luggage | $260
For years and years, we’ve used thrifted or otherwise inexpensive carry-on luggage.
And it worked. Sort of.
About a year ago, John was partway through a trip when his inexpensive luggage handle broke and he had to buy tape and try to cobble things together for a few days/flights and… it was not ideal.
With the amount of travelling John does in a typical year, he decided it was time for an upgrade.
This is an example of “you get what you pay for.” I have never pushed a suitcase that rolls more smoothly.
John specifically wanted a wide-handle design, and after a LOT of research, LEVEL8 luggage ended up at the top of his list.
He’s been using it for about a year now and highly recommends it.
It’s a splurge, but for someone who travels frequently, good luggage can make a big difference.
And that’s a wrap on the first of my Holiday Gift Guides. Up next (probably sometime this weekend?), I’ll be back with 15 stocking stuffer ideas for the men in your life.
Now… it’s your turn!
- If you’ve received (or bought yourself!) a gift from this list, which one would you recommend most?
- Give me all your great adult men gift ideas!
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It’s so difficult to buy gifts for men, but John came up with a great list! Well done! I love that it includes practical things as well as fun gifts, and that you’ve actually tried and tested so many of them.
Now I’m thinking about the kind of things that Kai would like: a good bottle of wine, something nice to wear (a dress shirt, or a nice t-shirt, a tie, cardigan, pullover, running shirt or shorts, etc). He also likes to go to a nice restaurant, so for our anniversary I would book one that I know he likes and then tell him where we’re going (although in the end, he has to pay for it, haha!)
So much of the challenge of planning to go out is in the planning! Doing all the heavy lifting in terms of reservations and making sure it works with scheduling is the main gift, in some senses! I’m sure he’s very happy to get the tab if you’ve made all the arrangements.
I just bought Darn Tough socks for my son- and my son-in-law has gotten them in the past. They seem to hold up great. I dont know if they’ll remember to use the lifetime warranty.
Most of the practical things on the list we own- the code reader has been priceless over the years.
I just bought LL Bean polo for my husband’s birthday. He’s tall, and regular polo never are long enough. The LL Bean ones come in long, last really well, and dont shrink. I also bought him a new road atlas- he likes a paper map, and our other ones are outdated. I would love to buy him that potable monitor, but he’s so picky about electronics, I dont know if it would suit him. I got him a new monitor in the post Christmas sales last year, and it’s still sitting in the box. Humph.
This is a great list- a variety of gifts and price points. Bravo, John!
Ohhh! Remind them of the warranty because it is great.
A road atlas; now that is something I haven’t heard about or thought of in a very long time. I remember travelling to the US with my parents and the whole trip was planned out using a paper atlas.
These are great ideas. I put several of them in my Amazon cart.
We’ve gifted the Starry Night set to our son. It’s really nice and highly recommend.
Starry Night looks like a mini work of art!
I love you and thank you for this! The travel neck pillow definitely peaked my interest.
John takes it with him every time he travels and sometimes for short flights he won’t pull it out and almost always regrets it! He notices such a difference in his sleep on the plane + overall neck comfort when he uses the trtl.
What a great list! Thank you, both to you and to John! It’s hard to shop for men, and there are so many great ideas here!
I hope you got a few ideas, Michelle! Christmas is coming… eeks!
Ha – my husband has a battery storage thingy and he LOVES it. Such an odd gift, but I think it is both useful and kind of fun???
It feels too early to start thinking seriously about Christmas gifts, but it will be here before we know it! Hmm. Perhaps I should adopt a No Gifts policy this year???
It is fun, in a way. And John LOVES organizers, so this naturally feeds into that habit.
No Gifts does sound kind of delightful both practically and financially. That said, while gifts are the smallest of my “love languages” I do really appreciate a gift that makes my life easier/more functional. And gifts bring my kids SO much delight.
Good luck convincing Carla of no gifts 😉 Haha. Let me know how that works out for you.
Yes yes yes!!!! Bring on the gift guides! It is NOT too early, and I actually talked about that in my blog post today. The earlier we get started, the less stress there will be in December- i’m determined to actually ENJOY the leadup to Christmas this year instead of feeling frantic.
These are some great ideas. Angie’s boyfriend is really into cars, so the car related gifts would either be amazing, or possible something he already has. I’m going to have to do a little sleuthing here. I’m not quite sure how to go about it- I can’t really say “Hey, no special reason for asking, but do you happen to have a car code scanner?” especially since I don’t really understand what it is.
My son will definitely be getting a Lego. Again, I’m trying to figure out how to casually find out if he and Isabel prefer Monet? or Van Gogh? You can’t really go wrong with Starry Night though.
Jenny, we are kindred spirits in terms of loving Christmas and wanting to not be going CRAZY with all the things that need doing in the final weeks.
Ha. Good luck with the sleuthing 😉
I remember that Paul loves LEGO. Both boys in my household are obsessed. It shows up every year under the tree and it’s usually their favourite gift. Plus, it gives them things to do.
I have the Turtl pillow as well, and I vouch for it. It helped me to get about 6-7 hours of sleep without a kinked neck when on a 13hr flight between Australia and the US.
I loved it so much I told my chiropractor about it, and he now owns one too, so if that’s not a vote of confidence I don’t know what is haha.
He absolutely loves it. Apparently he pairs it with one of those headbands with the earphones built in. His wife jokes that he looks like a mummy on planes because everything from his neck up is wrapped up 😀
Hooray! Another vote for Trtl. I was actually a bit surprised to see it didn’t have the best reviews, because it shows up on a lot of recommendation lists and John has tried so many different ones and says this is the best (but it’s like books: what works for one person, doesn’t for another).
And YES, if a chiropractor likes it, that is an excellent sign.
Goodness, if I could sleep on a plane, I would wrap myself up like Tutankhamun.
Elisabeth do you know if there’s any way of crediting your affiliate link if I swap to the Australian amazon site? I love some of your recommendations but I’d hate to buy something and you don’t get the credit for it. But it’s either free shipping on the Australian site, or paying currency conversion + shipping from the dot com site, boo 🙁
It should actually credit my account even when you switch to the Australian site (when you open the link, it should likely suggest switching to Australia). But DO NOT WORRY ABOUT IT. If it doesn’t work, I am not in the least concerned. 1000000000% go for free shipping!!
Thank you for this—going to check a few items for my certain hard-to-buy-for guy!!
Aren’t they all hard-to-buy for??? What is it about buying for men that is a perpetual challenge???