Well…
I severely underestimated how busy the last few days would be. It has – for the most part – been fun things filling those days. But they have still been very, very full. Is anyone else feeling pulled in ten different directions in these final days before Christmas?
There was cookie baking! And a snow storm! (Shovelling.) And walks! Many, many hours were spent in the kitchen. There was (more!?) Christmas wrapping, trips to the grocery store, too much time spent settling sibling disputes, ditto time spent dealing with wet snow gear. There was church, a variety of year-end work tasks, a tiny bit of reading, and a handful of micronaps. There were card games and surprise visits from friends. There were a lot of dishwasher cycles and, some could argue, too little vacuuming.
Even though I have a laundry list of blog topics I want to work through (including more Christmas-themed posts that will – *gasp* – have to get posted after Christmas), I’ve decided to revive a Ghost of Christmas Past and recycle a subset of Would You Rather questions I posed last year. If you told me your preferences before…please tell me again! It’s so fun to see the results of these polls and better appreciate how much our individual celebrations and preferences vary.
Loading ...Team Ginger all the way. I didn’t grow up eating sugar cookies, so I’ve never fully understood the appeal. They’re delicious (copious amounts of sugar + butter = hard to go wrong), but I don’t go out of my way to make/eat them.
In general, I prefer to consume Christmas-only goodies during the holiday and none of my favourites are actually cookies. My go-to treats? Peanut Butter Balls, Unbaked Cherry Cheesecake, Cinnamon Coffee Cake.
Loading ...Eggnog is a hard pass, though Indy adores it so I put some in my cart with a brief shudder last week (he’s already finished the entire carton). Coffee with Peppermint Mocha Creamer has once again been particularly delicious and festive.
Loading ...I love a fresh blanket of snow on Christmas morning but this is now relatively rare in our part of Canada. We almost always have a green Christmas (with fairly mild temperatures). Best case scenario? A white Christmas, followed by leaving Canada on December 26th for a warmer climate until mid-April. #RetirementGoals
This year we are almost guaranteed to have a white Christmas (quite a bit of snow already + cold temps for the next few days; we actually have snow in the forecast for Christmas Eve as well). The kids are overjoyed and I have to admit I’m happy about it too. There really is something extra magical about celebrating Christmas when there’s snow outside on the ground.
Loading ...I love Christmas trees and honestly think any tree looks beautiful once you add some twinkle lights and sentimental ornaments. We have a small artificial tree in the basement that John and I bought before our first Christmas as a married couple. It’s a bit Charlie-Brownish, but very special to me.
Since moving out of an apartment into a larger detached home, we’ve always opted for a real tree. Until this year. After the tree-toppling debacle of 2023, we opted to go artificial.
Christmas hack alert: if you do buy a real tree, here is a secret. A friend of ours owns a Christmas tree lot and her trick is to hold the tree firmly around the trunk and hit it down onto a hard surface (we usually went to the end of our driveway) VERY hard 10-20 times. She also sometimes sets up her tree outside and uses a broom to “sweep” up and down the tree. Both actions will dislodge loose needles.
Loading ...I am Team White lights all. the. way. Growing up we had coloured lights on our tree for years and even as a child I remember being elated when we made the switch to white lights. I find many types of multi-coloured lights can look dull and a bit depressing?! I love the clean aesthetic and bright shine of warm white lights. Even for outside lights, I prefer at least a mix of white + colours (think alternating white/red bulbs). I am NOT a fan of blue lights – ever – at Christmas. Blinking lights tend to be jarring, but I can see the appeal. And LEDs are an emphatic NO.
Loading ...Hmmm. Music, Christmas Eve services, and holiday movies and cartoons (Charlie Brown’s Christmas! The Grinch! White Christmas!) are all equally beloved. But then there’s the food. And the twinkle lights.
I can’t choose and I’m a monster for trying to make you play favourites.
Loading ...Growing up we had to wait an agonizing length of time in the morning; my parents insisted on getting dressed (my Dad would even shave!) before settling in to open stocking gifts. We’d pause, have breakfast, and then tackle the gifts under the tree. I suppose at some point when I was a frustrated adolescent – and thought having to wait until 7:30 am to open Christmas gifts was torturous – I likely vowed to let my kids get up at the crack of dawn and open gifts helter-skelter.
This hasn’t happened.
We tend to roll out of bed at a leisurely time, open stocking gifts, eat breakfast, clean up a bit, and then slowly work our way through gifts under the tree.
Loading ...I prefer it when everyone opens gifts one at a time. We tend to take turns for the first while and then one child tends to get a bit antsy and I usually give in and let them just open their final gifts at their own pace.
Most gifts take me several minutes or more to wrap and label (not to mention the hours and hours of thinking/shopping/buying/hiding) so I want to extend the opening experience for as long as possible to feel like I got more return on my investment. Unwrapping can all be “over” in an incredibly short period if we don’t find ways to savour and prolong the fun.
I also get a lot of joy out of seeing what other people receive; as an adult, I look forward to watching others more than I anticipate opening my own gifts!
Loading ...I was a married adult with a child before I realized some people did not wrap every single stocking stuffer. My mind was blown (and a bit deflated) the year we spent Christmas with someone who did not wrap stocking stuffers.
My parents didn’t have much money when I was growing up so all our stocking stuffers were wrapped in plastic bags (yup – the ones from the grocery store; it was the 80s and 90s), held closed with a strip of masking tape on which my mom would write the first initial of the recipient.
Most years I have wrapped stocking stuffers in regular Christmas wrap, but this year I’ve been using leftover packing paper from Amazon packages, scraps of wrapping paper from main gifts that are too small to be useful for larger items, and brown/white paper bags.
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No question – home! We had a few very bad experiences with treacherous winter travel around Christmas. Plus, I prefer being in my own space, waking up in my own bed, and not lugging gifts and gear. I do think if we didn’t have kids at home I’d be relatively neutral about going elsewhere as long as we didn’t have to drive through snow. When A and L were younger – and we lived in a teeny apartment that was not at all conducive to hosting company – we often did travel at some point over the holidays. But home is definitely where my heart is.
Loading ...I know I made up this question, but it is tough. I think I’d have to go with not knowing. I think it would bum me out to know everything under the tree.
Loading ...We have friends who always wrapped all the gifts for their kids on Christmas Eve. They’d set up a huge assembly line of items and wrapping materials in their bedroom and stay up into the wee hours of the night getting it done. I prefer wrapping gifts in small batches, spread throughout December. After twenty minutes or so of wrapping, I don’t find it fun anymore. I leave things quasi-set up for weeks in our family room, so it’s not much of a hassle to start/stop. I like to be in bed asleep by 10 pm on Christmas Eve, so staying up late to wrap holds little to no appeal! Aren’t I just a party animal…
Loading ...I’m definitely a turkey gal at heart and feel like ham is more of an American tradition over holidays (in Canada, most people I know have turkey at both Thanksgiving AND Christmas). But we have a seafood casserole a few days before Christmas (with leftovers of it again on Christmas Eve)…and I do love ham. But turkey is tradition!
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I love, love, love tradition. But I do enjoy trying new things (within reason) and appreciate some of the changes we’ve made over the years to modify existing traditions. But who am I trying to kid? I’m caption of the cheer squad for Team Tradition.
Loading ...This is a perennial struggle for me. I want to extend the coziness of Christmas but it always feels a bit melancholy and sad to look at the tree without any presents and to know that even as I’m listening to the Christmas music, it’s the beginning of the end of the holiday season which means winter is about to begin*.
*Cue ominous music – snow cancellations, icy roads, freezing temperatures.
Your turn.
- What’s your favourite Christmas tradition. Who started it, why is it so special to your family?
- Do you wrap your stocking stuffers?
- What’s your favourite day around Christmas? Christmas Adam/Eve/Day, Boxing Day, New Year’s Eve? Mine is definitely Christmas Eve, though Christmas Adam is quickly becoming a close-running contender for the title.
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mbmom11
I like Christmas at night, after all the hectic, fun activity has quieted.
We used to wrap all presents on Christmas eve, but I often had to do it alone. Even soft Christmas carols playing in the background could not tamp down my burning feeling of resentment. Now we have the kids wrap – hand them paper, tape, and a pile of gifts.
Melissa
We don’t do stockings, but anyone who still believes in Santa (or pretend to) has a sack that the Santa presents go in and zip always wrap the presents for that. Although we don’t have to do that now. I like to wrap the presents in one big go. I think it’s because that way I could get G to help me with the kids ones, although he would complain a lot. I like Christmas Day the best.
Tobia | craftaliciousme
This is so fun.
Some f the questions I was’t able to answer since we celebrate Christmas differently in Germany.
The main day is Christmas Eve.
It is decorating the tree around noon while my dad is making dinner, then it is a coffee cake eating, after which we get ready for church. Once we are back from church have to wait until a bell is rung (and my parents have places all gifts under tree). We usually spend it in the garden these days taking some pictures. Back in the day we sat in my grandparents Christmas room. Ince the bell rings it is Bescherung (meaning gifts). Usually we open the gift from my parents which are under the tree unless dinner is already read then we eat first which rarely happens. After eating we usually make some sort of mulled one and retreat to the church area for the second part of gift giving – meaning we open gift one at a time all the gist my sister and I and our partners have for all of each other. After that we open all our Christmas mail and read them allowed. And in previous days my dad would read us a story. These days they are both tired. Sometimes we play a bird game.
We never watch tv on Christmas Eve.
Zagorka
Long time lurker here 😉 I am similar to Tobia, in that I live in Germany, but I am originally from Croatia. The main festivity ist on Christmas Eve. We start with the evening meal, which is always fish, or otherwise meatless. My father reads Luke 2, and then we tuck in :). After that we sing a few croatian christmas carols, and then open the presents one by one. Everybody looks and ohhs and ahhs and congratulates the recipient. Then it is time for midnight mass, if possible. Christmas day itself is quite relaxed.
For me, Christmas starts with Christmas Eve, and I do not decorate before. But! Then everything is up until February 2nd, which is the old catholic end of Christmastide. So from my point of view it is perfectly OK to have Christmas themed post after December 25th!
Cattis
This year it’s been so relaxing preparing for christmas because we just had the weekend and I’m off work today. I did all my usual dec 23 prep yesterday so now I get to do whatever I want. Not a normal luxury. In a bit I’ll do a christmas puzzle with my 16 year old daughter per her request (finally, usually we do a couple of puzzles together during december but she has been busy with teenage stuff). And my kids are going to bake som swedish gingerbread cookies later. Of course we have the uppesittarkväll, we play bingo, try the christmas food and candy, puzzle etc. It’s a coach evening together before christmas celebrations tomorrow.
My favourite day is boxing day because it’s super chill, I get to read my books, puzzle, the fridge is full with leftovers from christmas so everyone feeds themselves when they are hungry. We might watch a christmas movie together or play some games.
Merry christmas 🌟🎄🌟