I think this was my favourite Christmas from adulthood.
The kids were healthy. The adults were (mostly) healthy. The food was amazing. We had a white Christmas. The kids were old enough to sleep in, help with cleanup, and entertain themselves. We lingered over gifts. We savoured food. We were surrounded by family. We burned a rather alarming number of candles.
I am also feeling very ready for this holiday season to be over. It has been busy. Company arrived before the kids finished school for their holiday break, and said company won’t leave until after the kids go back to school. A few days after that…more company arrives. It has been a truly wonderful time and I wouldn’t change anything about the last few weeks. (I will also add that if anyone wants some exceptionally easy houseguests who will help with cooking, cleaning, and grocery shopping might I suggest inviting either Kyria or my brother and sister-in-law; I highly recommend both.)
But.
I am an introvert who thrives on copious amounts of quiet time and mid-January will be a welcome change of pace.
I have a gift recap post and all the details about our annual Christmas morning clue hunt for the kids still to come (better late than never), but today I thought I’d do a quick overview of Christmas 2024 logistics.
FOOD HIGHLIGHTS
Christmas Adam:
- Seafood casserole. This is John’s favourite meal of the entire year and it has become a Christmas Adam tradition. We serve this with rice, and dessert was pumpkin and pecan pies (always store-bought, never homemade – life is way too short to make pastry). This year I also roasted some cauliflower and broccoli.
Christmas Eve:
- A tradition from my childhood is having pizza on Christmas Eve. We’ve adopted the same habit in our family and this year planned to order pizza (instead of making it at home) for the first time. The weather had other plans. Because of a fairly significant snow storm, the roads were not in ideal condition and at the last minute we pivoted – cancelling our order and making homemade pizzas (donair and pepperoni) on Naan bread. Served with a salad and homemade Christmas goodies like peanut butter balls. Delicious.
- For supper, we had homemade Mac n’ Cheese and homemade brown rolls – both courtesy of my mom.
Christmas Day:
- Cinnamon coffee cake (monkey bread). A beloved tradition that has already spanned generations! Served alongside plain yogurt, fruit, orange juice, and eggs + bacon.
- We skipped lunch and ended up having a late-afternoon supper of open-faced croissants with ham/cheese and tuna. We also had a fruit and veggie tray. Dessert was Unbaked Cherry Cheesecake.
Boxing Day:
- Turkey dinner! We had a late breakfast, a mid-afternoon snack, and then an early (4:30 pm) supper. I cooked the turkey a bit early and my brother carved it and then we kept it warm in a slow cooker while we finished the rest of the dishes. Maple syrup glazed carrots in a(nother) slow cooker, baked potatoes, Stove Top, bread and butter pickles, homemade brown rolls, cranberry sauce (purchased), canned corn, gravy. Dessert was leftover pie and cheesecake.
New Years Eve:
- That take-out pizza we had to cancel on Christmas Eve? We ended up ordering in on New Years Eve and invited some friends over for supper. They brought a smorgasbord of items, we had a veggie tray, and then there was ice cream and/or homemade chocolate peanut butter cheesecake (made by John and every bit as delicious as it sounds).
TRADITIONS
- Ornaments on Christmas Eve.
- The food order listed above has pretty concretely become a tradition.
- A Christmas-morning treasure/clue hunt. More details to come!
- Writing Bible verses on gift tags as clues. This is one of our favourite traditions and it makes the whole experience of opening gifts last longer. It’s so fun to see people guess the contents of their package based on (often obscure) Bible verses.
THINGS THAT WORKED WELL
- Watching a show with Belle on Christmas morning. It really helped keep the kids happy until my parents/brother and SIL were ready. We didn’t start opening gifts until about 9:00 am, so kudos to the kids for their patience. This year we snuggled in her room and watched A Charlie Brown Christmas on a laptop. John and Indy watched a car YouTuber they both enjoy. It all felt very festive and calm.
- An adventure on Christmas Day. We did some outdoor walks and it was lovely.
- Having two meals on Christmas Day instead of three. This made life easier AND we all felt less lethargic. John is a whiz at creating delicious sandwiches and flaky croissant sandwiches on Christmas Day felt practically perfect.
- Cleaning up after stockings (before breakfast), and then again after gifts. By the end of the afternoon I had all the Christmas gift bags, boxes, and bows mostly organized. It felt so good!
- Minimizing leftovers. We have a small apartment-sized fridge and it was very helpful to not have an excess of food at any given time. We accomplished this by going to the grocery store more frequently and not making too much extra food at each meal.
- Generally having outdoor time over the holidays. Fresh air + more time off screens + exercise. The snow added to the appeal.
- Playing games. Buzzword and Telestrations were especially enjoyed.
- Opening gifts one at a time. This gets easier and easier as the kids get older. Indy tires of the slow pace and we sent him off to play with LEGO when he started getting antsy. Because we had extra people in the house and they had brought their own gifts for each other from Denmark, there were a lot of fun surprises (I enjoy watching what other people receive even more than opening my own gifts). Extending the day as long as possible makes all the work that goes into preparations feel more rewarding.
- Other than Christmas morning, never doing anything special for breakfast. I made sure there was milk, cereal, toast, fruit, yogurt, oatmeal, and various spreads (butter, honey, jam, peanut butter) and then I let people pick what they wanted to eat for breakfast…when they wanted to eat it. It made cooking for a crowd feel less onerous.
THINGS I’D DO DIFFERENTLY
This is very nitpicky, as I really wouldn’t feel the need to change anything.
- Only attending one Christmas Eve service. I sang in the choir and that meant being at church from 3:00 – 7:00 pm. It was lovely, but I think I would have enjoyed coming home after the first service and hopping into my PJs.
- I’d watch more holiday movies. I didn’t watch either Grinch this year (for perhaps the first time in my life). I didn’t watch very many Hallmark movies. I don’t necessarily love spending time on the couch watching movies when I could be reading or blogging BUT it also helps makes the season feel extra festive. In 2023, most evenings were capped off with a Hallmark movie and I really liked the vibe and flow of that habit.
- I’d make a few more finger-food desserts. Extra peanut butter balls, saltine toffee, and peanut butter brittle bars. All were a huge hit and because we had extra people, my normal recipes didn’t make quite enough to last us through the holiday.
Your turn.
- What are your go-to Christmas meals. Do they happen at very specific times/dates each year?
- What worked well this year in your holiday celebrations?
- What didn’t work well – or, what would you like to function differently next year?
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Melissa
Your Christmas sounds lovely and pretty relaxed even with the extra people. What worked well – not going to both G and my extended family Christmas on Christmas Day.
Elisabeth
I think spreading out the Christmas cheer and making each day a little less chaotic is one of the key ingredients of a fun Christmas!
Michelle G.
I’m glad you had such a lovely Christmas! All of the food sounds delicious and I’m sure your guests enjoyed everything! And how nice to have easy, helpful guests! I love the idea of pizza for Christmas. We had pizza for Thanksgiving this year, and it was so much fun!
Nicole MacPherson
If you’re looking for a holiday movie (next year?) may I suggest Hot Frosty? It’s just adorable. It was the cutest and most interesting holiday romance I’ve seen and I think it’s pretty safe for family viewing. Gosh, don’t quote me on that, now that I’ve said that there’s probably something I’m forgetting. But I thought it was darling. Also the four of us watched Claus which I will write about, but it’s a really wonderful movie about the origins of Santa Claus. It’s animated but would be way too scary for a younger/ sensitive child. It was a tear jerker honestly.
Your holiday season was busy, girlfriend! I hope you can get some rest now! xoxo
Elisabeth
It was so busy, but very fun and I think that it’s impossible to have a great holiday without it being at least a bit on the busy side. So I’m feeling tired…but content!
I will make sure to look it up before showing the kids 😉
Lindsay
We have specific food traditions for Christmas – pizza on Christmas Eve, cinnamon rolls for breakfast on Christmas Eve and Day, appetizer Christmas lunch, everyone’s favorite cookie – that anchor the holiday for us. This year, we did Christmas Day dessert at a friend’s house which was super different but overall good for us to go be around people. Your holiday sounds so lovely and connective! (And, I’m glad you have some quiet time to look forward to, as well!)
Elisabeth
I love that you have favourite cookies. There is something so comforting about holiday food. It’s predictable AND special all at the same time. It’s a winning combo in my books.
It was a really wonderful Christmas. We’ve had some tough ones with very sick kids, so it was a huge relief that everyone was healthy and happy.
Jenny
Your Christmas sounds lovely, as always! This year does sound extra special. I just realized I never told you- I ended up not live streaming your Christmas Eve service- they were too early for our schedule. I’m sorry I missed it! (I did live stream the service my son and husband played at, and that was fun- theirs was much later in the evening.). I also just realized we never watched Charlie Brown this year- I also wished we had more time to watch Christmas shows/movies leading up to Christmas. I’m looking forward to your gifts recap!
Elisabeth
For some reason Belle insisted we watched Charlie Brown (I didn’t grow up watching it, oddly enough, so the tradition means a lot more to her). It was a really nice way to ease into the day. And it made her happy!
I hope my gift recaps don’t disappoint. I just love your enthusiasm 🙂
Marcia (OrganisingQueen)
Yay to easy houseguests! We did something different for Christmas this year.
Usually there is a mother or mother-in-law around to do a Christmas roast but for the last couple both were not with us. I am not a “roast cooking” person so I have ordered from a local place before to still have the roast. This year I decided I am DONE with expectations and asked everyone what they wanted. You know what we ended up having? A delicious beef lasagne (not cooked by me), salads and garlic rolls. I did grill some chipolata sausages for extra protein but I loved our non-traditional meal.
Elisabeth
Isn’t it amazing how sometimes we carry on traditions simply because it’s a tradition and not necessarily because anyone wants said tradition to continue. Gold stars to you for forging a new path.
Central Calif Artist Jana
Once again I am ignoring your prompt questions and have some for you, because inquiring minds NEED to know! (I really appreciate the way you respond to every comment.)
1. What is your kitchen countertop? It looks reflective, as if it might be stainless steel.
2. Does your company actually stay with you in your house the whole time??? (so much meal prep!)
3. What’s that box/cupboard thing with the treasure hunt clue inside?
4. How about an example of how to use an obscure Bible verse as a clue?
5. What is that outdoor treasure chest/sign thing with the red bow on it?
Signed,
Curious in Central California
Elisabeth
1. It is inexpensive laminate that came with the house (not sure when it was installed – the house is from the 1970s). It’s a dark, speckled blue and quite forgiving.
2. Yes, our company stayed with us the whole time. I planned for a split between my house and my parents, but it ended up being easier for everyone else if they just stayed here. We’re extremely fortunate to have a dedicated guest room and the basement has a bathroom and stand-up shower they can use. The bathroom looks like something from The Shining, but they’re family and don’t complain.
3. That is our mailbox. One of the clues led them to the mailbox. I will be back with lots more details next week.
4. How about I do a whole post about the Bible clues?!
5. The outdoor/red bow are the decorations in a local town. We went for a walk in the lead-up to Christmas after dark and the lights were so lovely!
Central Calif Artist Jana
Thank you for the answers! Your dedicated guest room and extra bathroom. . . absolutely key to good company times. Sure, I’d love to see an entire post of Bible clues!
Elisabeth
Okay – stay tuned. I am hoping to have this pulled together next week 🙂 For our family, it has become a very fun tradition.
Maureen
We always do a Christmas Eve dinner and Christmas Breakfast. This year, my husband wanted seafood for Christmas Eve dinner, so he made a white wine pasta dish with shrimp and scallops. He loved it and now knows how to make it. Next time he says he’ll add clams. I don’t eat seafood, so I had ravioli with jarred sauce, which to me was equally delicious.
Then on Christmas Day, my husband (who always gets up early) started the ham and coordinated the souffle that we put together the night before (has to sit in the refrig overnight). Boy was it good. We both agree it was the best one we’ve ever made. And we had some leftover bagels that we bought and froze from when we were in NY. The rest of the day was spent just be lazy and eating whatever we wanted to snack on.
Our daughter’s family came over the weekend and we finished the bagels from the freezer, had “Pop Spaghetti” for dinner (my husband makes a great meat sauce that our granddaughter loves) and ate out once after some shopping. Then we came home to a nice Carrot Cake that my son-in-law requested for his birthday. It was yummy!
Elisabeth
Aww. Pop Spaghetti! Love that he’s adopted it as a special treat for your granddaughter.
I grew up disliking carrot cake, but found a recipe I adore and now it’s one of my favourite desserts. I haven’t made it in ages. Maybe once all the decadence of the holidays is over, I’ll pull out my recipe and get baking.
Tobia | craftaliciousme
So many great traditions and dishes. It sounds like you had a very great time with family.
I am looking froward reading about the Christmas hunt.
And I would love to get some samples of what bible verses you matched with what gift.
We never have breakfast over holidays. Who needs something grabs something from the fridge. We have lunch and then a buffet style dinner. Specially when people are over.
And houseguests who help to clean up and run errands are the best. I rarely have people stay over night. Last year it was two and only one night each.
Elisabeth
I will do a whole bunch of examples of verses + gift combos so it’s easier to understand what I mean!
I love buffet-style things over the holidays. It feels less pressured because then people can take what they want (and avoid dishes they don’t enjoy). Win, win.
We don’t have a lot of company, but when they come it tends to be for a while. This year we had my father-in-law (1 week), my brother and SIL (2.5 weeks), and Kyria (4-5 days). It felt like a perfect quantity of guests and every single one of them is SO easy and helpful.
Lisa's Yarns
I watched more Christmas movies than I have in the past this year since our kids are at the age where they enjoy movies and can sit still for an entire movie. I haven’t watched a Hallmark Christmas movie since having kids… I should carve out time to watch some next year!
Our Christmas was the best of times, the worst of times. Christmas Eve was near perfection. I enjoyed church and hearing Paul sing! And the Christmas Eve party was so fun! The wheels fell off on Christmas Day when I was sick and puked to start the day… And then felt miserable. I rallied to watch the kids open their presents and took a total of 2 pictures. And then I went back to bed. I was determined to make our traditional turkey dinner with mashed potatoes and gravy but had a grimace on my face since I was nauseated the entire time. Sigh. The post-Christmas celebration at my parents was nice but I didn’t feel like they wanted me there since we had just been sick (which I get – no one wants to acquire a stomach bug – but I was very sure this wasn’t the flu since I was better w/in 24 hours and only threw up once). Things were better after a few days since my family was more confident they wouldn’t get sick. But I wish they had told us to stay at home rather than having that sort of passive aggressive vibe to the day…
But all that said, I am THRILLED that you had such a wonderful holiday and that your guests were so helpful! And I agree, Kyria is THE best guest to have. When she stayed with us, I went into the office on her last full day with us and she asked if she could do anything, and I asked that she make some rice and pop the enchiladas in the oven. So we came home to dinner being ready which is really the best feeling. And I felt zero guilt asking her to do this because I know she genuinely wanted to help and seems to enjoy kitchen work.
Elisabeth
Being sick over Christmas is one of the worst insults. Ugh. I’m glad you had such a wonderful Christmas Eve and hopefully that’s the memory that stands out from this particular holiday season.
The passive aggressive thing sounds so horribly stressful. And it’s sad to be somewhere where you don’t feel wanted and accepted – especially after having such a rough Christmas day.
Kyria can come stay ANY TIME. She was the best and the kids adored her.
Maria
This all sounds so lovely and well-thought out with a lot of meaningful traditions and simplifications to make it easier for you to enjoy the people and the time! Gold stars!
This year I’m trying to be purposeful about spreading out some things. For example it’s only today that I’m making the casserole that’s the big holiday meal on my dad’s side of the family. It’s helped me feel less overwhelmed with Must Do All the Things.
Elisabeth
Gold stars. It can be so hard to break tradition or spread things out beyond the “typical holiday window.” Enjoy the delayed gratification and festive cheer <3
Alexandra
We don’t have a set routine of events or meals as there is basically just the two of us and, as I am the chief cook and bottle washer, I do a lot of advance stuff that can then be done quickly. I also love throwing stuff in a single pot, in the oven, or utilising the wok. Basically, one-pot meals.
We do, however, visit my SiL now Christmas Eve, which has become the tradition, which is great. As she and her husband do most of the cooking. Though these last few years, everyone has brought something to make it all easier. So the day has become more finger foods.
Christmas day people usually visit us. This year it was the MiL, as my father in law passed last Christmas. Things were really quiet. Boxing day was a little more lively. But still, nothing like my childhood and early adult years with family back in the UK where we could have upwards of 15-17 people in the house (my mother’s) at any given year.
As for movies? Oh we’re big on doing a Hallmark movie each night leading up to and over the Holidays too. It’s become our things. Well, me mostly, as the OH sits there with me, but they’re usually reading and or playing on their iPad.
This coming Christmas I’m thinking of volunteering I do dinner for everyone, English style, here for a change. I’ll see if I can persuade the SiL. 😀
Elisabeth
I’m a huge fan of finger foods over the holidays as you can better control what you eat and try a variety of different foods.
Jacquie
Your Christmas sounds lovely!
Having house guests that are very thoughtful makes a difference to the extra work that is required, even when we are happy to do it.
This year I watched a lot of older movies I hadn’t seen before – Christmas in Connecticut, Childs Christmas in Wales, The Snowman in addition to the many that I regularly watch. Movies and music are always a big part of Christmas for us. I also made a trifle dessert that was always part of my childhood Christmases, and was so pleased it tasted exactly as how I remembered it!
Having our daughter and son-in-law over before the 25th works so well for all of us. Its the 2nd year we’ve done it and will continue with it.
Elisabeth
I couldn’t agree more. My reaction to company varies significantly based on their level of dependence.
Stephany
Gosh, I love this so much and may I say, you look STUNNING in that picture in the snow with your beanie!
I think someone else asked about a post for the Bible verses/clues because I am fascinated by that. So much prep but what a cool idea and a great way to incorporate the Bible into your Christmas memory making. <3
We do some traditional stuff over the holidays. My mom, stepdad, and I always go out to a fancy steakhouse on Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day we do a big meal of turkey, ham, mashed potatoes, stuffing, etc. And, of course, we have our typical Christmas sugar cookies!
Ernie
Your Christmas sounds delightful. You have it all down to a science. The only meal we have as tradition is Christmas morning breakfast. I make Apple Puff Pancakes. It’s a casserole, a fam favorite I found in a cookbook when Lad was 1. Along with an egg casserole. We do not have any other specific meals at our house before or after Christmas. But we often eat out on Christmas Eve.
Lad and Tank each got a big ticket item. And then very little else. I wish I had come up with a surprise gift or a few fun things for him, but he only requested sweat pants tall enough to fit him. I like the idea of getting something practical or a big ticket item they each want. Shopping for 8 kids plus 6 godchildren was a lot. Plus we have a ton of Christmas -ish birthdays. We open one at a time and that works/keeps things at a relaxed pace.
I did not host this year because my sister ann insisted on hosting since her 4 kids were in town. This sounded relaxing, but since I bring more people to the meal and because my sister lives in a very small townhouse, I brought probably more than half of the food. The cramped space of the party was not cozy as I had hoped. It limited moving around and conversing with everyone. Ed is 24 and generally very easy going, but even he said if Ann insisted on hosting again, he would rather skip it. We have all learned that it is simply not worth it to have Ann not get her way, so hopefully she won’t try to host again. And hopefully my kids will help clean the house if I host again.