Time to talk food, television, and books. Who’s ready?
FOOD
I recently took part in a church-wide fast. For the first time – in my life! – I abstained from food for a spiritual reason, and it was a transformative experience. It also made me hyperaware of how much I love eating good food and, not surprisingly, I jumped back into cooking with two enthusiastic feet after completing my fast.
Here are the most notable mentions:
- This Curry Chickpea Salad is mindblowing. If you are not driving a vehicle, flying an aircraft, operating on a living creature, or allergic to chickpeas: leave your computer this instant, run to the nearest kitchen facilities, and MAKE THIS SALAD. I learned about the recipe from Birche, and this will be part of my regular lunch routine moving forward. I followed the recipe exactly except I subbed hot red pepper jelly for the mango chutney. So, so good.
- I made chicken quesadillas. It has been years since I made quesadillas. WHY? I put a wheat tortilla on a baking sheet, sprinkled half with cheese, topped it with chopped chicken mixed with a bit of BBQ sauce, green onion, and cilantro, and then sprinkled on a bit more cheese, folded the top of the tortilla over the bottom and cooked for 10 minutes at 400F, and then on a low broil for 3 minutes. So good. L happened to have some friends playing outside and they stayed; one of the boys went back for thirds of the quesadillas so I took that as a good sign.
- Back to Birchie’s recommendations…I also made this Vegan Butter Chicken. The sauce is so good I could have put it in a mug and sipped it for supper. Yum. I’m not a huge tofu fan, so I think I would prefer chicken or roasted cauliflower subbed in, but it’s a great vegan option and the sauce is to die for. I followed the recipe, but did add a glug of maple syrup and subbed cumin for coriander. It is even better the second day (as Birchie predicted)!
- Veggie sausage soup. I don’t have any pictures of said soup because the day I made it we had an impromptu Snow Day Dinner Party (9 children!), but it was so good. Onion, carrot, celery, browned sausage, zucchini, diced tomatoes, beef broth, a jar of pasta sauce, salt, pepper, and basil. Comfort food at its best.
- Lemon chicken. I just cannot stop making this recipe. A adores it; L informs me I’ve made it too many times. This week it was whipped potatoes, chicken, and roasted broccoli. As a quick reminder, one of my new favourite cooking hacks is roasting from-frozen broccoli. I sprinkle frozen florets on a parchment-lined baking sheet, drizzle a bit of EVOO, salt/pepper/spices – roast at 400F for 15 minutes, stir, and then roast another 15 minutes.
- If anyone is curious what my kitchen looks like while I cook. Behold. I am a use-every-single-dish-and-only-clean-up-at-the-end kind of gal.
WATCHING
- Ferrari. It was fine. After my obsession with Formula One last year, I think I enjoyed it more than I would have prior to that introduction to the world of racing. Adam Driver and Penelope Cruz were fantastic, but the movie felt a bit…flat?
- American Nightmare. This was a true-crime docuseries on Netflix. I don’t even have words for this one. CRAZY. INFURIATING. IMPOSSIBLE TO STOP WATCHING.
- Captains. A sports docu-series on Netflix that covers the events of the 2023 World Cup. I have a fanatical Messi fan in my house (though I didn’t let him watch the series; lots of f-bombs!), and this was a really engaging series that I very much enjoyed.
- Nascar: Full Speed. My American friends, I had no idea Nascar was SUCH A BIG DEAL TO AMERICANS. What a spectacle. What a…weird sport. I feel zero attachment to any of the drivers (unlike Formula One, which I now have a genuine interest in), but it felt “educational” since going into this docuseries I knew absolutely nothing about Nascar.
- Frasier. We’re slowly watching through the seasons at night. So many zingers. Such a classic. I laughed so hard at the clip below this week that I could barely breathe, which is exactly what I want out of a sitcom.
READING
There was…a lot of reading for me in January. I know having a digital Sabbath each week contributed to this, and any time I’m home solo I automatically read more as well.
I’m slowly working through My Brilliant Friend for Engie’s CBBC (it’s not too late to join the club!), but here are the books I finished in January. A lot of them I’ve already recapped in this post, so I’ll only write little summaries for the ones that haven’t already been discussed on the blog.
Can you tell I favour non-fiction?
The Woman in Me by Britney Spears. (Not rating this since it’s a memoir). Much has been said about the writing style; I think it deserved to be written in Britney’s voice and it was – no complaints from me on that. I could not put this book down, but spent the whole time feeling…sad. What a sad life. What a sad family. What a sad set of circumstances. A very revealing look at the dangers of teen stardom and the potential corruption of those who might be “supporting” them on their journey. (Y’all, I had her first album ON CASSETE TAPE…along with the Spice Girls; I had NSYNC, Five, and Backstreet Boys on CD.)
The Last Devil To Die by Richard Osman. (4/5 stars). I think this might be my least favourite of the four Thursday Murder Club books. It was good but missing some of the warmth and humour of the other books (especially the 3rd – my favourite book in the series). I had a few chuckles along the way, but nothing like in previous books and the story felt a bit disjointed and tired. Still a solid offering by Osman, but not as engaging as earlier books in the series.
Momfluenced by Sara Petersen. (3/5 stars). I was very excited to read this book but after the first few chapters, it fell flat for me. It was long and boring with too many hashtags. It also felt like a double standard – Petersen rips apart specific momfluencers, but then admits how much she enjoys reading their content. There were some interesting and thought-provoking passages but, overall, this was not a book I would recommend to others. Which was especially disappointing as I think this book had SO much potential.
In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss by Amy Bloom. This was a Meh for me. I generally don’t rate memoirs (and won’t this one) but I struggled to get engaged in the story and I had some moral quandaries about the situation. I also found the flip-flopping timeline distracting. I know this is a much-beloved book on a very hard and heart-breaking topic, but it didn’t hit the right notes for me (despite having two family members who suffered from extreme dementia for over a decade each). *FYI: This ties in really well with the Richard Osman book…!
Counting the Cost by Jill Duggar. I don’t generally rate memoirs, but I did give this a 5/5 stars on Goodreads. While I didn’t grow up in IBLP like the Duggar family, I found myself nodding along to many of the fundamentalist views they had been forced to align with as children – this memoir was a revealing, yet respectful, look at a troubled family involved in a troubled cult. I found Jill and Derick’s story wholly captivating. It serves as a reminder that tragic stories like this can have threads of redemption and pointed evaluation of “faith points” (she wears pants! she has a nose ring – how scandalous) does not always lead to total abandonment of faith.
Know My Name by Chanel Miller. (No rating; memoir). This was a hard book to read. How brave to share her story and to show the world the depth of the impacts of sexual assault – both to the victim, but also anyone who knows and loves them. That said, I did find it very, very long. I think it would have been more impactful if it had been about 50 pages shorter.
Do Parents Matter by Robert and Sarah LeVine. (3/5 stars). This book had a lot of potential but was bogged down by dry regurgitation of facts. Some really interesting anecdotes, but not a compelling read.
Recipe Recommendations
- I need some homemade sauce recommendations. Salad dressings, dipping sauces. A really great Italian dressing? In general, I avoid dairy so anything sour cream-based is out (but I do use mayo and realize that can often be subbed for sour cream). What dressings do you use on your salad? What dips do you use for veggies? For years I made and loved Pinch of Yum’s Everything Marinade as a salad dressing (I left out the soy sauce and doubled the balsamic) and should start making that again, but I’d like some options for diversity.
- Gingercake. Any amazing recipes?
- Easy, delicious, filling muffin recipes (or breakfast cookies)? I have a child who hates apples in anything, so as much as I love apples in muffins, I think I need an apple-free recipe. I’d love something that incorporates ingredients like flax and chia seeds.
Your turn. What have you been cooking, watching, and reading lately? Any recipe on current repeat in your household? When is the last time you laughed so hard you could barely breathe? Has anyone else watched American Nightmare?
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Beckett @ Birchwood Pie
The next time that I make a Nora Cooks recipe I am going to run it by you first. I would not have thought to use hot pepper jelly.
At this point I’ve decided not to read the Britney Spears book because I think it’s just going to be sad. Jill Duggar’s book is a different story. There is a documentary about the Duggars on Amazon Prime that was really good, and I was really impressed by her. It seemed to me that she took the mess that her family handed her and was able to make a good life for herself. I didn’t know that she had written a book, so I will make tracks to get my hands on it.
Elisabeth
I am making a wrap with this filling for lunch for a dear friend; I hope she loves it as much as I do!
It was a sad book, but also eye-opening. I thought the Jill Duggar book walked a good line between giving behind-the-scenes views into what life was really like, while being respectful.
Kyria @ Travel Spot
I echo Birchie in not planning on reading the Britney book. I also agree with you re Devil; I liked it but it was not as good as the others in the series. I still think number one is my favorite, as it introduced everyone and I loved getting to know them! Of course, I also did not realize it was going to be a series so I think that made me treasure the first one as a stand alone… I did listen to his authors notes after reading number three and I actually quite like him; he seemed very interesting as a person!
Elisabeth
They’re all (the Osman series) solid books, but I do wonder if the series doesn’t have legs to go for the long run?! Maybe he should stop now?
Nicole MacPherson
We are on the same page – not five minutes ago I published what all my dinners were last week! Of course, since I am apparently having issues with feedly, you might see it in like three days. Nonetheless! Food.
I haven’t read the Britney memoir but I have heard a few podcasts discuss it and wow, what a sad life she had. The detail with JT and her pregnancy, I was actually crying HEARING THE RECAP so I just think I am going to give it a pass and send a warm thought out to Ms Spears.
Elisabeth
Well, I am popping over right now to read your post. I’m also having issues with Feedly. Maybe a Bluehost issue since I know we both use Bluehost?
Nicole MacPherson
Somehow I keep commenting on your blog, closing it, and thinking “oh yeah, I wanted to tell her” so, you know, hi! What I wanted to say is my younger son makes a quesadilla almost every day that he’s home for lunch. He puts ANYTHING into it. Leftover chicken. Eggs. Pepperoni sticks he finds in the freezer. Onion. Cheese. Whatever is in the fridge is fair game for him. It doesn’t seem tasty to me but he loves it.
Elisabeth
I feel like wraps are just so versatile! A great vehicle for cleaning out the fridge!
Jenny
I LOVE Nora Cooks! Her recipes are always reliable- I don’t think I’ve made one that wasn’t delicious. I remember Birchie talking about those two, but I haven’t made them yet. I’ll definitely made them soon, and I even have hot pepper jelly for the chickpea salad!
You read a LOT in January! The only one of those I’ve read is Know My Name, and I liked it. It’s funny, I definitely prefer fiction to non-fiction. I have a non-fiction book going right now but I always want a story to get engrossed in. I haven’t read any of the Richard Osman books yet, but I guess I should get on that bandwagon! Everyone seems to love them.
Elisabeth
I think you would really like the Osman books, Jenny. They’re fun mysteries but with some cutting wit. I’m a big fan.
I strongly prefer non-fiction (when I was a kid/teen, it was ALL about fiction; now, I have a hard time staying engaged in fiction, I find).
I hope you try the chickpea salad. It is sooooo good!
Lindsay
My girl loves these lemon blueberry muffins but we omit the blueberries and call them lemon chia muffins (https://www.runfasteatslow.com/blog/lemon-chia-seed-blueberry-superhero-muffins). The recipe is very forgiving -I’ve added flax, use AP flour, use butter vs. coconut oil – and she goes back to them again and again. We’ve been on a Mediterranean / falafel kick for a few months with Wednesdays and Sundays all about some sort of bowl or slow cooker meal involving farro, feta, and lots of personalized add ins (sundried tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, etc.).
Elisabeth
I am adding those to my To-Try list! Thanks for the suggestion.
I am loving English cucumbers in a quinoa salad lately. I need to try toasting my quinoa; two friends have mentioned doing this lately and it sounds/looks AMAZING.
TAS
I’ve been loving tahini based sauces. No specific recipe but tahini, water, garlic, lemon and a touch of maple syrup and maybe sesame oil. I use it as a dip or on roasted veggies or grain bowls.
Elisabeth
Yum. I’m on a “bowl kick” lately and this sounds like a delicious topping.
Katie
I’ve wanted to watch American Nightmare, but it looks a little too scary?! But I’m really intrigued!
Every time I see a chickpea recipe it looks amazing, but mine always turn out slimy and gross! Bleh!
I am slowly making my way through A Tree Grows in Brooklyn. I know several bloggers read it a while back. I’m LOVING it.
Elisabeth
It wasn’t overly scary but infuriating and unsettling (definitely trigger warnings of sexual assault, though).
ATGIB is a classic; I’m so glad you’re enjoying it!
Colleen Martin
I read the Britney memoir, and agree…so sad (the abortion was terribly hard to read). I’m reading John Stamos right now, and it’s really good, but contains sex stories and addictions so it’s not for my mother to read 🙂 I make banana muffins A LOT and they have oatmeal in them, so they are a bit hearty. Usually the kids will have a muffin and yogurt or milk to get some protein in. And now I need to head over to Birchie’s blog because she sounds like a good food inspiration source!
Elisabeth
I make an oat-based (exclusively oats, no flour) muffin and add apple or carrot or banana but the kids are kinda over that recipe at this point. I’ve been making it for years and it’s so easy and tasty…maybe I should try to entice them again. It has been a few months since I last made it – but used to make it 2-3 times a week!
Having a child that doesn’t like apple baked is a real nuisance!
Michelle
I enjoyed seeing the photo of your kitchen in use! It looks like a wonderful place to spend time cooking all of your delicious dishes! I’ve never been able to get into NASCAR or any car racing. Last year, I watched all the reruns of Frasier and enjoyed them so much. I recently watched a video where someone gave a virtual tour of Frasier’s apartment, and that was really fun to see. (Marina Coates on YouTube.)
Elisabeth
I make such a big mess when I cook…but I’m too impatient to do dishes while I work.
Frasier is my favourite sitcom ever. Just the perfect mix of high-brown humour and hilarious slapstick. LOVE IT. (The early seasons are the best; it’s definitely not nearly as funny in the later seasons once Daphne and Niles get together. Same with The Office when Jim and Pam got together. Something about that relational friction being relieved kinda lets the wind out of the sails…?)
I should check out that tour.
NGS
If fourteen people spontaneously arrived at my house expecting a meal, they’d get dry granola. I think that’s the only thing I have on hand to feed that many people!
I’ve read exactly zero of those books. I think it’s crazy how many books are out there! (And the title Do Parents Matter? is ridiculous. WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT?! Of course parents matter. *sigh*)
Elisabeth
I invited them an hour before so I had warning!!! I definitely don’t have enough granola for 14 people! Maybe canned tuna?
Lisa's Yarns
I just added the ingredients for the chickpea curry to our grocery list so I can bring that for lunches next week. I just need to figure out how essential that chutney is… Because I would only be buying it for this dish. And Phil does our shopping and would likely say – what the heck is this? I don’t know that I’ve ever eaten chutney.
You read a ton in January! Nice work! I really loved and appreciated In Love but I can see how it would not work if you have a different take on the husband’s decision to end his life. My views on that decision have changed as I’ve gotten older and Phil could completely understand why that choice was made (as could others in my book club who had a parent deal with dementia). But views around that decision are very nuanced and personal. I hope it’s a decision neither Phil or I will have to face someday.
Elisabeth
You could skip the chutney and even add a bit of jam if you had it (it calls for mango chutney or apricot jam and I used neither!).
The topic in In Love is tough, but I also didn’t love the writing style. Not sure why, but I found it scattered and just not that enjoyable to read (subject matter aside). But it is a very big topic and I thought the author handled it all extremely respectfully!
coco
I love chickpea salad but haven’t tried curry one. Wrap with chickpea salad will be delish!
keep sharing your favorite recipes, what a great inspiration to get out of the routine.
I also prefer non-fiction although I’m reading BBC and enjoying it so far. I can do 1 fiction per month and rest nonfiction mostly.
I’ve revisiting Anthony bourdaines’ parts unknown, love how he focus on the nuance culture part of the city and less on food as in no reservation. highly recommend it.
Elisabeth
I hope you get a chance to try the chickpea salad with curry. So delicious!
I’m like you! One fiction or so a month and the rest non-fiction.
Suzanne
I love Frasier so much. I have all but stopped watching TV (not purposely, it’s just happened that way) but maybe I need to find some way to rewatch the series?
I am so curious about the Britney Spears memoir, but I am afraid it will be too sad for me to listen to.
Elisabeth
They are just…so funny! John and I quote little parts to each other all. the. time. Such a classic.
J
We rewatched Seinfeld, and now we are rewatching Friends. I think we’ll have to give Frasier a try next, we haven’t seen it since it was on originally I don’t think.
What do you think about the chickpea salad, does it need the jam and raisins? My husband can’t have the sugar and hates raisins. I think I’ll make it as is, my daughter and I will love it, and then see whether the modification would work for him.
I have a delicious vinaigrette recipe, but it’s balsamic and it sounds like maybe you have a balsamic recipe already? Here’s mine:
3 Tbsp Balsamic Vinegar
2 Tbsp fresh Lemon Juice
1 Tbsp Dijon mustard
2 cloves garlic, minced
1/2 cup olive oil
Salt and Pepper
Whisk together the first 4 ingredients, add salt and pepper to taste, then whisk in the olive oil.
Elisabeth
Yum. I do have a few balsamic vinaigrette recipes, but this one seems slightly different so I will give it a whirl! Thanks for sharing.
I think you could definitely leave out the raisins and chutney. Especially if you had lots of cilantro. The next time I think I might use pumpkin seeds so I can send it to school for the kids (they have a no nut policy that includes cashews so I can’t send it as-is and I keep forgetting to take some out because I add the cashews).
Shelly
I would never think to use the red pepper jelly instead of chutney. That is brilliant as I wouldn’t buy chutney (no one else would eat it) but I also often have the jelly in the fridge. I will be trying that out!
I make breakfast cookies: mash banana, mix in peanut butter and vanilla. then add quick oats, cinnamon, a dash of seat salt. Bake for 12 to 13 minutes. You could add in flax or swap out chocolate chips.
Elisabeth
If you try the recipe I hope you love it. It’s a new favourite in our house!
Yum. Those breakfast cookies sound delicious and straightforward! I will try those soon.
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Diane
I go back and forth on memoirs. I always feel like I’m not getting the whole story in them. (Although, when does one ever get the whole story.) Like I come away with more questions than answers.
How cozy and wonderful those pictures of group lunches look. Nothing warmer than being inside with good company on a snowy day.
We have a lot of peanut sauce here – no one recipe in particular, but it usually involves peanut butter, soy sauce, sesame oil, garlic, rice wine vinegar, honey.
I make the oatmeal muffin recipe in the King Arthur Baking cookbook all the time. The only tricky part is that you have to soak the oats in buttermilk for several hours beforehand so it does take a bit of forethought. But only as much as dumping it together before you go to bed. I like the recipe because it’s hearty but not too sweet. I like it so much that I’m going to type it out for you… 🙂
1c. rolled oats
2 c. buttermilk
1/2c. brown sugar
4 tbsp butter melted (or I just use vegetable oil or coconut oil, particularly if I don’t have time to let the butter melt and cool)
1 large egg (preferably at room temperature. I have been known to tuck them in my sweatshirt pocket to warm them up.)
1 tsp baking powder
3/4 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
1- 1/2 cups flour
1 c. raisins (optional. I’m sure you could add other things, like flax seed here.)
Combine oats and buttermilk. Cover and refrigerate over night. (or days, if you are me…)
preheat over to 425
-combine buttermilk/oat mixture with brown sugar, butter, egg, baking powder, baking soda, and salt.
-Stir in flour and raisins.
-scoop into muffin tin. Bake 20 mins or so.
Elisabeth
Yum. These sound delicious!! Thanks for sharing and anything with buttermilk is usually THE BOMB! It’s such a magical ingredient.
Sarah
I am using Kodiak pancake mix (the high protein kind) that the kids do not like to make muffins- they like them just fine! I make minis an put blueberries in some, a swirl of PB in some, and tiny chocolate chips in some. You could for sure sprinkle flax as well. I have also been adding it to morning smoothies, and everyone is a fan. This was my starting point: https://healthbeet.org/easy-kodiak-muffins/
Elisabeth
Smart!
Stephany
The Britney memoir was SO sad. She has had such a difficult life.
Know My Name was also incredibly sad and hard to read, but so very impactful. I listened to it on audio and Chanel Miller has such a great voice. I hope she’s able to write something else in the future – she has such a way with words.
Elisabeth
Miller really is such a talented writer.
Melissa
I must remember to try that chickpea curry. Your kitchen looks pretty neat while you’re cooking. We used to cook the quesadillas when the kids were home. We’d make them in the sandwich press.
Elisabeth
I just made another batch of the chickpea curry – this time with pumpkin seeds since the kids can’t take any nuts to school and my other batches have had cashews.
San
Oh, I am so intrigued by the chickpea salad. I think I already bookmarked it when I read about it on Birchie’s blog but have YET to make it.
For dressing: my favorite and go-to is simple olive oil and balsamic vinegar dressing.
For a veggie dip: I love making yogurt-based dips with a bit of apple cider vinegar, parsley, salt, pepper and garlic.
I am going to try these breakfast cookies this weekend: https://theschmidtywife.com/healthy-breakfast-cookies/
Elisabeth
Those cookies look delish! I need to make those ASAP.
I never thought of making yogurt-based dips. Brilliant!
Kate
I have to admit my inner 5-year-old is saying “chickpea salad?!?! blech” 😀 BUT with such high praise, I will definitely try it! Love the roasted broccoli tip too. I have fallen into a deep, deep hole of steamfresh microwave veggies and can’t get out of it…
You read a lot in January! Memoirs are definitely difficult to rate. The Glass Castle is one of my alltime favourite memoirs. the subject matter is heartbreaking but the writing is phenomenal. The Thursday Murder Club series has been on my list to read; a good kick in the pants to actually place a hold on it!
Elisabeth
The Glass Castle was…crazy. I could not put that book down. But agreed – SO SAD.
I hope you love the Thursday Murder Club series. Book 3 is my favourite, but they’re all entertaining.
Anne
The books you read are so far outside my usual reading genre(s) that I don’t know if I will ever pick any of them up. I am trying – honestly – to remember if I’ve ever read a memoir? Part of it may be my general disconnection from, um, popular (read: TV, movies) culture. I suppose that’s why there are so many books on so many topics – I can read my combo of non-fiction, fiction, and thrillers, and you can read what you like. 🙂
Elisabeth
Never read a memoir? It is for sure my favourite genre of them ALL!
Tobia | craftaliciousme
Just the other day I was thinking about which music was on my cassettes. I only had three and therefore listened to them on repeat on my walkman. Of course!
I think that Brittany memoire is a must read if you grew up in the area. I have requested in the library.