Twice in the last week I have come across anecdotes about people whose lives changed dramatically – thankfully in both cases for the “better” – at the ripe old age of thirty-seven.
I took special note since I am now thirty-seven. It seems an inauspicious number; rather forgettable in the milestone birthday category. Yet, at least two people (and I’m sure legions more) have made major life changes at the age of thirty-seven.
One such shift involved Bill Watterson – author and illustrator of the iconic Calvin and Hobbes comic strips.
These comics happened to be my favourite while growing up and I’ve been slowly working my way through the canon. Aside from enjoying the humour of the strip, I’ve taken an interest in the behind-the-scenes workings of syndicated newspaper comics. (It’s a decidedly exhausting and cutthroat business.)
Watterson launched Calvin and Hobbes in 1985. The next decade saw a meteoric rise in the strip’s popularity – though much of that time was concurrently spent in legal battles as Watterson worked to prevent the merchandising of his characters (hence the dearth of Hobbes stuffies; any urinating Calvin decals are, in Watterson’s words, the work of “thieves and vandals”), along with a fight for more creative freedom in his Sunday spreads. Over this same period, he took two nine-month sabbaticals – virtually unheard of in the industry – to offset burnout.
By 1995, Watterson was done. He was just thirty-seven. Arguably at the height of his creative career – which, given his sabbaticals, ran a little over eight years – he left untold millions on the proverbial drawing board to lead a life of obscurity.
I am not leaving untold millions on any drawing board, have not spent a decade embroiled in legal battles, and can’t draw to save my life. (I am also female, do not live in Ohio, and have precisely zero desire to learn more about dinosaurs.)
But I am thirty-seven. I’ve resigned from a job in the last year. I’m currently taking a five-night sabbatical from parenting and home management. This post isn’t some attempt to draw a big connecting arc between myself and Watterson, but it has provided interesting food for thought.
And just for fun…some highlights from my ongoing re-read of the complete works of Watterson’s Calvin and Hobbes.
So true, no?
My father never read Calvin and Hobbes, but he was forever telling us that unpleasant tasks would “build character.”
Okay, this one isn’t funny, but I appreciate how big truths – this one hits particularly close to home – can be conveyed in such accessible, relatable ways in a comic strip!
Oh goodness, do I ever relate to this…
Relatable, no?
I hope I have enough cadmium red – it gets me every time and is so “Calvin”.
I was crying with laughter – CRYING!
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Jenny
Hahahahahaha, I LOVE Calvin and Hobbes SO MUCH!!! My son and I used to read them all the time when he was little, and now we still take them out every once in a while. Truly, the best comic strip ever. And… I can’t even believe you’re 37. You’re SO YOUNG!!! When I was 37 my son was a year old- yes, I started very late!
Elisabeth
I know we are kindred spirits with our love of C&H. It is just such a classic strip that has something for everyone. Kids can relate. Parents/grandparents can relate. It’s also just cynical/pessimistic enough to really resonate with me – ha!
I am very young for having had two kids the ages mine are, I think. I was born when my mother was 38 and I cannot – CANNOT – imagine being pregnant right now and having a baby next year. (I was 23 when A was born; 27 when L was born). That said, I really have had to “grow up” while raising kids. I think each approach (for lack of a better word; obviously for some women this is an intentional choice, for others it’s because of life circumstances like not finding a partner early in life, infertility etc) has pros and cons. I must say I love the idea of being relatively young when my kids leave the roost + when I (maybe?) end up having grandchildren. BUT, I think I would have been a more competent mother if I had been a bit older. I was so young and just figuring out so many other things in my own life…and then to have kids in the middle of a chaotic/unsettled time of life (just finishing a degree, no career, basically no income, starting two businesses) was A LOT.
Lisa’s Yarns
Ha these are so great!! My little sister loved Calvin and Hobbes but I didn’t read them as a child. I should get some from the library to read with Paul. I bet he would love them. The bath one is so perfect for us. Paul is in a stage where he really fights baths and it drives me freaking nuts!! The simplify one is great too!!
At 37 I had Paul so my life didn’t really change at that age. But I think if I could design my ideal life, I would have had kids like 5 years earlier because it is a young man’s game!! But then I would have had to marry 5 years earlier and it just all is impossible so I will accept that I am an old mom. Ha.
Elisabeth
A lot of things went over my head with these comics as a kid which I love – I feel like I read them with completely different eyes (and for the most part I assume completely different things appeal to me) at this age.
My mom was 38 when she had me and it rather boggles my mind to think of having kids at that age BUT, like I said in the comment response to Jenny, I think whenever a woman has kids tends to come with various trade-offs. I do think I would struggle even more now with middle-of-the-night responsibilities etc, but I like to think I’d have had a bit more perspective. Then again…maybe not. I think parenting regardless of age is HARD (and, for some personalities – like mine! – it’s maybe harder than for some that more naturally take to the role?)
Joy
Why does the Spanish practice at the end crack me up most?
Now that you mention it, I reached a breaking point/breakthrough at 37 too. Something about “pushing 40” really changed my perspective.
Elisabeth
That is my favourite bit too. I was crying, Joy, CRYING.
You’re right – it is close to a fairly momentous birthday! I know that 40 will be here before I know it 🙂
Nicole MacPherson
I love Calvin and Hobbes – and that is fascinating about the creator!
Hmm…37. I can’t think if anything interesting happened when I was 37…that was 2012…nope, I think that was just a regular year for me, no big changes.
Elisabeth
I just love learning backstories and this one shocked me.
Regular years are great…! I’m hoping 38 is BORING!
Lindsay
I was 7 when Calvin & Hobbes started and a junior in high school when it ended and it has always held such a place in my heart as one of those collections that bookended my childhood (along with The Far Side and Garfield)! I love this connection to a year of possible dramatic change. I’m almost 10 years past 37, but it was a turning point for me, too: we were just past my daughter’s medical drama in her first year and I could finally take a deep breath in motherhood, we were in a new house in a new town, my job changed drastically for the better… who knows? Maybe there is something to the season of 37!
Elisabeth
Maybe there is?!
Also…wow. 37 sounds like such an intense period of time in your life. There is always “something” but I’m ever so glad you have more space from the trauma of a child with medical issues. That’s so scary and with all the other things competing for attention, it must have been such a different period of life <3
mbmom11
Maybe by 37 a person has enough experience to make judgements about what they really want or need?
At 37 I was having my 7th kid, so I was just doubling down on my chosen lifestyle.
We love Calvin and Hobbes here- given that I was around when they first came out, it’s great to see my kids read them. My son has dressed up as Calvin for Halloween a few times, and unfortunately has also taken him as a role model for his academic career. His teachers are long-suffering.
Elisabeth
Ha – I do love Calvin and Hobbes but might not want my kids to emulate that. That’s hilarious your son dressed up as Calvin! A Calvin and Hobbes duo would be hilarious at Halloween (we used to have a tiger costume and L went as a tiger one Halloween – a missed opportunity!).
Ally Bean
I always loved Calvin & Hobbes. I have a couple of their books. Love the one you shared here about adding guilt to any problem. Calvin knows, eh?
Elisabeth
I love the mix of pure hilarity and then deep, existential discussions in the Calvin and Hobbes comics. A classic for a reason!
Noemi
Thank you for posting this. I ADORE Calvin and Hobbes and haven’t read them in ages. I’m taking my son and his friends to a KOA nearby this summer and I was wondering what books to bring up for the moments of downtime. Calvin and Hobbes is perfect! And today I’m cleaning up my room at school so I can pack them and bring them home. Very serendipitous that you posted about them today indeed.
Elisabeth
I hope everyone enjoys this trip down memory lane!
Steph
I am about 1 month younger than you, so we’ll be embarking on this big(?) year together! 🙂 Our lives are very different and yet we both have the same North Star.
Here’s to a beautiful year for us both! “You crown the year with Your bounty and goodness…”
Psalm 65:11 AMPC
Elisabeth
We’re almost birthday buddies! Birthday’s always leave me feeling “reflective” and I feel extra pensive this year! Maybe I’ll look back on 37 (to 38) as being a monumental year?
Maria
Calvin and Hobbes is so funny. Haven’t read it in years, but this makes me want to see if the library has any copies… It makes me think of going my aunt and uncle’s house – they had/have a TON of comic books, including Calvin and Hobbes and my childhood favourite of For Better and For Worse. Brings up a cosy feeling thinking about reading on their couch.
No idea if 37 will be a transformative year or not for me yet as I’ve got 5 years to go… but the last several years have all had their Big Change
(2018 – got doctorate and moved to Ohio and started dating my now husband
2019 – got married
2020 – daughter #1 was born two weeks before a global pandemic 2021 – we moved/I went through the whole immigration process for Canada and we bought a house
2022 – son was born
2023 – daughter #2 was born)
Ages 27-32 have been busy and full of major life events so we’ll see what the next five years will bring!
Elisabeth
Wow! That is a string of VERY intense years.
I used to love For Better or For Worse; I might have to start re-reading that series after I finish with Calvin and Hobbes?
San
I love C&H… didn’t read it much growing up (I think because it didn’t exist in Germany. I know they’ve been translated but I didn’t grow up with, but I of course have seen comic strips here and here. Always so “spot on”. 🙂
I’m trying to remember if anything particular happened when I was 37. I cannot recall anything that stands out. Maybe that’s a good thing. Ha.
Elisabeth
I feel like most years do not feel momentous (or at least I don’t draw a line from my age to whatever was happening around me). Maybe 37 will be the year?
Melissa
My youngest started school when I was 37 so that was a big change, but no big change that was driven by me. I never really got into reading the comic section of the paper. You are right though, these really do get into the nitty gritty of life.
Elisabeth
I used to love reading the comics in the paper, but like it even better in the treasuries so I can binge-read!
Diane
That’s so fascinating about Bill Watterson. My kids have gotten into comics lately and so I’ve gone back and re-visited a lot of my favorites. Many of them are no longer running in my newspapers- Get Fuzzy, 9 Chickweed Lane, For Better or For Worse…. When I look at our Sunday paper only Pearls Before Swine is there. (I mean also Hagar and Blondie and Zits, but I didn’t love those as much as the ones I listed.) It’s kind of fascinating the life of a cartoonist, having your life’s work be centered around one set of characters and having to create something every.single.day. I don’t wonder that people get burned out.
I hope 37 is a great year for you!
Elisabeth
I had no idea how intense the life of a cartoonist was – six regular strips a week plus a Sunday strip, with lots of restrictions over formatting. It sounds exhausting, especially since it has to be funny and engaging. And there are literally no weeks off in a year. But I think most of his burnout came from the interpersonal stuff? Fighting over contract disputes, etc. It soured his experience and made the creative work more effortful since his mind was occupied with these other things?
He seemed very content to walk away, though. And sometimes comic creators perhaps hang on too long. Watterson left at the top of his career, so at least no one would accuse him of staying past his prime!
Sophie
I’ve never really read Calvin before, it’s very funny! Thanks for sharing. When I was 37 I was pregnant with my second (and during covid no less!) but it was 2 years later at 39 when we made our big tree change, and moved the family from the craziness of Sydney, to a slower pace in a different state! So perhaps it’s approaching middle age that does it? It was such a good move for us 🙂
Tobia | craftaliciousme
As San already said C&H is not widely known in germany. I did hear the name but never read it much.
The 7 years are always just bla. My 37 was in 2019 so I am not even sure what happened there… being pre covid probably more than in the following years bit I can’t remember anything.
Daria
So spot on… I knew of C&H after I came to America but I never really read comics. I come from the land of Dostoyevski and my personality only wants doom and gloom reading sources lol
At 37 I already had L! She was 6 months when I celebrated my 37th birthday.
Elisabeth
Ha. I tend toward doom and gloom and Calvin and Hobbes is the PERFECT mix of cynicism with hilarity. You might love the series?
Michelle G.
Calvin and Hobbes! How lovely to see them again! And what a story about Watterson leaving it all behind. I can’t think of anything particular about being 37, except that I loved being in my 30s! I also loved being in my 40s. And being in my 50s is also great in different ways. I wish you a wonderful 37th year full of many joyful moments!
Elisabeth
Thanks, Michelle. Such lovely sentiments.